Told someone in relationship that i have feelings for them?

stop beating yourself up. you would have told her anyway or she would have guessed so the not telling would never have worked. at least this way you can say you were drunk. now the heart is a funny thing and who's to say that her relationship will last. so the best thing is to handle this with decorum. if your mates are so unsupportive and selfish as this lot and the friendship was really that fragile then you don't need them. true mates make allowances and forgive when you've made a tit of yourself so what you do is this: get yourself some new buddies. get a hobby or even better a sport that makes you feel good and you'll make load of friends. you were capable of having a great social circle before and you will have it again, but the group you're with now are a shower and disloyal. do things that make you feel good and you'll find that people want to be around.